I Got My Boyfriend Back _ I’m So Happy I Could Cry!

I have been sitting here at the kitchen table with my best girlfriend, Dee, crying and laughing at the same time. Actually both of us are so darn giddy, it's hilarious.

And when we start laughing really, really hard, I almost pee myself. Oh Gawd! I've started giggling again. Hold on a second, I have to stop laughing and then I'll tell you all about it.

Now let me tell you why we are so giddy. About six months ago my boyfriend dumped me. As you can imagine, I was completely devastated.

It hurt so bad, I thought I was having a heart attack!  All I did was cry hour after hour. I couldn’t even think, much less try to go to work. I was so messed up. You know what I’m saying right?

About 3 days into the worst event of my life, a thought hit me. It was almost like a huge lightning bolt coming out of the sky and hitting me.

I really, really love this guy and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. And the first question that popped into my mind was, "How do I get him back?"

I had already tried to text and call him, but he just plain ignored me. Then I went over to his house and almost got on my knees begging him to take me back.

Karl was very gentle, as he explained what was going on with him and then he asked me to leave. I was stunned as I left.





About half way home, I got to thinking, and that’s when I blew my top. I just plain lost it.

 

After getting home I called Dee, bawling my eyes out again and she rushed over; to comfort me and give some much needed advice.

Dee had gone through the same thing with her boyfriend within the last year, so she knew what she was talking about.

As we talked she told me how she had done the same things I had and they didn’t work for her either. “O.K.! Then how did you get Michael back?” I asked.



“Listen,” she said. “Lisa, the first thing you need to do is stop acting like a fool. You’re going to have to take your time and figure out what caused Karl to breakup with you.

Once we have that figured out we can layout a battle plan to get him back.” And trust me that‘s precisely what we did.

Dee broke out her copy of the “Magic of Making Up” and began to list the things she had used and I was going to have to do to win my ex back:

* Start looking my best, all the time not just part of the time
* Determine why Karl and I had fallen in love the first time
* Start doing the things that had attracted Karl to me originally
* Stop texting, stop calling, stop going to his house

To make a long story short I followed our battle plan and last night Karl asked me to marry him. Oh Gawd! The ring is beautiful. Now you know why I’m so happy I could cry.

But I have to tell you without Dee and her tips from the Magic of Making Up I would have lost Karl forever.

                                                                        

If You Want To Get Your Ex Back - Self Help Techniques May Not Work

by T Dub Jackson, author of The Magic Of Making Up

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 If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, self help techniques may not work unless you seek the right type of advice. If you walk into any bookstore you will see shelves of books written on relationships. They will cover all topics and be written by men and women; some of whom will have very impressive credentials.

But how do you know they will work? How do you know that these same writers are themselves happily involved with someone? Quite frankly I believe you have to be in a great relationship before you can help other people with theirs.

After all you don't go to a nun for sex help do you? So why ask a single person how a partnership should work?

You need to use self help books like The Magic Of Making Up i.e. a book written by a real person, who is very happily married and writes to help real people just like you; with similar relationship problems. You want someone who cares whether you and your partner make it or not.

Someone who will answer your emails should you wish to ask them a personal question because just sometimes the books don't always cover everything.

Any relationship can be improved upon. There is no such thing as a 'perfect one' just as no human being is perfect. But you can have a great relationship with your ex boyfriend. He is probably Mr. right for you. You may have just run up on a couple of hurdles that you need some help in getting over.

Self help marriage counseling like reading "The Magic Of Making Up" may be an answer for those of us that don't want to sit down with a stranger to discuss the intimate details of our relationship. But unless you know where to start and what to look for, you probably aren't going to achieve much more than another argument.

The problem is that when you are involved in the situation you often can't see things from the other person's perspective. This is important for you to learn as it takes two to tango as the old saying goes.

You will have to deal with painful issues and discussing these will take patience and practice. For example, sex may be causing an issue between you but it is often very difficult to discuss making love. Both of you may feel embarrassed or ashamed or annoyed that this subject is coming up again.

                                                                             

So before you dive into sorting out your relationship, make sure you have done some reading and proceed carefully while you apply what you have learned.

Take things slowly and don't let your discussions turn into an argument. If things get heated, walk away and cool down. You cannot make the other person speak to you, so if they are not into a chat at that time, then leave it, and wait for a couple of days.

Usually you will find that your ex guy is just as eager as you are to sort things out. Pick your moment before applying the relationship self help approach.

If you would like some more great information on how to get your ex boyfriend back.....

I have a friend named T. W. Jackson. T Dub authored a simple, down to earth step by step guide called The Magic Of Making Up.  Take a look I think you'll like it.

T Dub made a special video with you in mind.

You're invited to watch here:



While I'm a little bumbly and no Brad Pitt on camera...

...the video has been watched over 893,000 times (rated 4 1/2 stars) and it's rare for a day to go by where I don't receive a really heart warming note from someone that has put their relationship back together after going through hell and fearing they'd never find their way back.

Hope it helps you too:-)